The Pursuit of Perfection, or How to Become a Misshapen Mess
In an era where social media dictates that we present ourselves as the epitome of beauty, a disturbing trend has emerged among some young men who are taking drastic measures to alter their appearance. They call themselves "looksmaxxers," and their actions can only be described as reckless and misguided.
These individuals are turning to surgical procedures, injectables, and even performance-enhancing substances like steroids and crystal meth in an attempt to achieve the mythical ideal of physical perfection. The problem is that this pursuit of beauty has become an all-consuming obsession, driving men to mutilate their faces and bodies in a quest for something unattainable.
The influence of social media has played a significant role in perpetuating this trend. Young men are bombarded with images of conventionally attractive individuals, creating unrealistic expectations and fueling their desire for self-improvement. But the reality is that beauty is subjective and fleeting, and the cost of pursuing it can be devastating.
Take, for example, 19-year-old Braden "Clavicular" Peters, a prominent figure in the looksmaxxing community who has gained a significant following online. Peters' fixation on physical perfection has led him to refer to Vice-President JD Vance as "subhuman" and claim that he would vote for Gavin Newsom over Vance because of his height and good looks. This kind of arrogance and entitlement is precisely what's wrong with this trend.
But what's even more disturbing is the fact that these young men are listening to the advice of individuals who are, frankly, too young to know better. The attention economy of social media has created a culture where people are more likely to take advice from someone with a large following than from experts in their field or trusted friends and family.
As someone who values authenticity over superficial beauty, I couldn't disagree more with this trend. In fact, I believe that true beauty lies not in physical appearance but in character, kindness, and a willingness to accept oneself for who we are. The idea that we need to conform to societal norms of beauty is not only unrealistic but also unhealthy.
Instead of chasing after an unattainable ideal, young men should focus on developing their minds, hearts, and souls. They should spend more time creating art, making music, or writing books than trying to Photoshop themselves into a perfect image. They should learn to laugh at themselves, to appreciate the beauty in imperfection, and to find joy in the simple things.
In short, being ugly is not only easier but also more acceptable. It's okay to be ourselves, flaws and all. And it's precisely this kind of self-acceptance that will lead us towards a more authentic and meaningful life.
In an era where social media dictates that we present ourselves as the epitome of beauty, a disturbing trend has emerged among some young men who are taking drastic measures to alter their appearance. They call themselves "looksmaxxers," and their actions can only be described as reckless and misguided.
These individuals are turning to surgical procedures, injectables, and even performance-enhancing substances like steroids and crystal meth in an attempt to achieve the mythical ideal of physical perfection. The problem is that this pursuit of beauty has become an all-consuming obsession, driving men to mutilate their faces and bodies in a quest for something unattainable.
The influence of social media has played a significant role in perpetuating this trend. Young men are bombarded with images of conventionally attractive individuals, creating unrealistic expectations and fueling their desire for self-improvement. But the reality is that beauty is subjective and fleeting, and the cost of pursuing it can be devastating.
Take, for example, 19-year-old Braden "Clavicular" Peters, a prominent figure in the looksmaxxing community who has gained a significant following online. Peters' fixation on physical perfection has led him to refer to Vice-President JD Vance as "subhuman" and claim that he would vote for Gavin Newsom over Vance because of his height and good looks. This kind of arrogance and entitlement is precisely what's wrong with this trend.
But what's even more disturbing is the fact that these young men are listening to the advice of individuals who are, frankly, too young to know better. The attention economy of social media has created a culture where people are more likely to take advice from someone with a large following than from experts in their field or trusted friends and family.
As someone who values authenticity over superficial beauty, I couldn't disagree more with this trend. In fact, I believe that true beauty lies not in physical appearance but in character, kindness, and a willingness to accept oneself for who we are. The idea that we need to conform to societal norms of beauty is not only unrealistic but also unhealthy.
Instead of chasing after an unattainable ideal, young men should focus on developing their minds, hearts, and souls. They should spend more time creating art, making music, or writing books than trying to Photoshop themselves into a perfect image. They should learn to laugh at themselves, to appreciate the beauty in imperfection, and to find joy in the simple things.
In short, being ugly is not only easier but also more acceptable. It's okay to be ourselves, flaws and all. And it's precisely this kind of self-acceptance that will lead us towards a more authentic and meaningful life.