Aspiring Olympians face an uncharted terrain when they become new mothers - a world where emotional support and financial stability are as crucial as rigorous training schedules. For Ashley Caldwell, the journey began months before giving birth, with doubts about her body's response to the demands of motherhood.
The U.S. Olympic Committee seems woefully ill-equipped to offer guidance on navigating this uncertain terrain. Caldwell turned to fellow four-time Olympian Faye Gulini for support, and found solace in a newfound sense of purpose. "It was no longer about me and my journey," Gulini reflected, "but about us and our journey and what I could teach them and show them."
These women are part of a growing trend of new mothers seeking to balance their family responsibilities with the demands of elite athletics. Caldwell's decision to have children nearly two years ago was met with concerns that her sponsors or coaches might view her as diminished, a concern not unfounded by past examples.
The "kiss of death for a female athlete" label has been bandied about, highlighting the risks associated with pregnancy and childbirth for women in high-performance sports. Yet Caldwell and Gulini are bucking this trend, driven by a newfound sense of purpose and motivation that goes beyond personal achievement.
Caldwell's journey is one of self-discovery, as she grapples with the contradictions between her desire to compete and her responsibilities as a new mother. Her husband, Justin Schoenefeld, offered words of caution - "Come back when you're 36" - but Caldwell is determined to forge her own path.
As she navigates this uncharted territory, Caldwell is drawing on her experiences as a high-level athlete to inform her decisions about family and competition. She's mapping out her breastfeeding schedule for the next six months to coincide with the opening ceremony, driven by a desire to balance her responsibilities as a mother with her competitive ambitions.
Gulini's story serves as a reminder that this journey is far from unique. The U.S. snowboarding team will be hosting a training camp in Argentina soon, and Jamie Anderson - one of the most decorated snowboarders in U.S. history - will be among those competing. Meghan Daniel, another Team USA athlete, has been attempting to qualify for her third Olympics despite being a new mother.
These women are pushing boundaries, challenging traditional notions about what it means to be an Olympian and a parent. As Caldwell poignantly put it, "It's female empowerment." The difference between owning one gold medal and potentially adding a second is not as significant as once was - but for these athletes, the stakes are far from trivial.
Their stories serve as a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and the human spirit. As Caldwell continues on this journey, she knows that finding "this happy balance" will be key - between family and competition, motherhood and her athletic ambitions. Only time will tell if she'll succeed in navigating this uncharted terrain, but for now, she's determined to forge her own path.
The U.S. Olympic Committee seems woefully ill-equipped to offer guidance on navigating this uncertain terrain. Caldwell turned to fellow four-time Olympian Faye Gulini for support, and found solace in a newfound sense of purpose. "It was no longer about me and my journey," Gulini reflected, "but about us and our journey and what I could teach them and show them."
These women are part of a growing trend of new mothers seeking to balance their family responsibilities with the demands of elite athletics. Caldwell's decision to have children nearly two years ago was met with concerns that her sponsors or coaches might view her as diminished, a concern not unfounded by past examples.
The "kiss of death for a female athlete" label has been bandied about, highlighting the risks associated with pregnancy and childbirth for women in high-performance sports. Yet Caldwell and Gulini are bucking this trend, driven by a newfound sense of purpose and motivation that goes beyond personal achievement.
Caldwell's journey is one of self-discovery, as she grapples with the contradictions between her desire to compete and her responsibilities as a new mother. Her husband, Justin Schoenefeld, offered words of caution - "Come back when you're 36" - but Caldwell is determined to forge her own path.
As she navigates this uncharted territory, Caldwell is drawing on her experiences as a high-level athlete to inform her decisions about family and competition. She's mapping out her breastfeeding schedule for the next six months to coincide with the opening ceremony, driven by a desire to balance her responsibilities as a mother with her competitive ambitions.
Gulini's story serves as a reminder that this journey is far from unique. The U.S. snowboarding team will be hosting a training camp in Argentina soon, and Jamie Anderson - one of the most decorated snowboarders in U.S. history - will be among those competing. Meghan Daniel, another Team USA athlete, has been attempting to qualify for her third Olympics despite being a new mother.
These women are pushing boundaries, challenging traditional notions about what it means to be an Olympian and a parent. As Caldwell poignantly put it, "It's female empowerment." The difference between owning one gold medal and potentially adding a second is not as significant as once was - but for these athletes, the stakes are far from trivial.
Their stories serve as a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and the human spirit. As Caldwell continues on this journey, she knows that finding "this happy balance" will be key - between family and competition, motherhood and her athletic ambitions. Only time will tell if she'll succeed in navigating this uncharted terrain, but for now, she's determined to forge her own path.