The perfect way to switch off from work: the secret to a daily de-stress routine

Blurring the lines between work and leisure has become increasingly common with the rise of remote and hybrid working. However, research by Business in the Community (BITC) reveals that 55% of employees feel pressured to respond to calls or check emails outside work hours, while two-thirds of workers report working overtime due to high workloads.

For many, switching off from work is no longer as straightforward as it once was. The pressure to be constantly connected and available can lead to burnout, with one in five people remaining at high risk despite the pandemic's end. According to Claire Ashley, a former GP and author of "The Burnout Doctor," setting boundaries between work and leisure time is crucial for maintaining mental health.

Ashley recommends establishing a daily ritual or routine that signals the end of the working day, such as exercise, reading, or spending time with friends and family. The key is to create a clear distinction between work and personal life, which can be particularly challenging when the lines are blurred due to remote working.

Sabine Sonnentag, a professor of work and organisational psychology, believes that what we do during our leisure activities matters more than the activity itself in terms of its recovery benefits. "We need physical, as well as mental, separation," she says. This means avoiding work-related tasks and electronic devices outside working hours.

Research by the University of Manchester and Manchester Metropolitan University found that engaging with work email during leisure time was associated with poorer physical and psychological health. Instead, establishing a 'digital detox' or using apps to limit notifications can help create space for relaxation and recovery.

Ashley notes that many people mistakenly view work as an energy-sapping stress, rather than something they love doing. She argues that having boundaries between work and leisure time is essential, even if the job itself is enjoyable. "Everyone needs downtime," she says.

The Dramma model, which stands for detachment, relaxation, autonomy, mastery, meaning, and affiliation, provides a framework for understanding the recovery experiences that are crucial for maintaining wellbeing. According to Sonnentag, these experiences can be achieved through activities such as exercise, spending time with loved ones, or engaging in hobbies.

Ultimately, setting boundaries between work and leisure time is not just about personal preference but also about being proactive in managing work-related stress and burnout. By establishing clear limits, prioritising self-care, and making conscious choices about how we spend our time, individuals can create a healthier balance between their professional and personal lives.
 
I was just thinking, have you guys tried those new plant-based milk alternatives? I mean, I'm not saying they're better than regular milk or anything, but I've been drinking oat milk for weeks now and I feel like my skin is glowing 🌱🌸! Anyway, back to work-life balance... I think it's so important to create a routine that signals the end of the workday, you know? Like, do something completely unrelated to work, like cooking or practicing yoga. That way, your brain can actually relax and not be thinking about work stuff all the time πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ. And yeah, I agree with Sabine Sonnentag, it's not just about the activity itself, but also being free from work-related tasks and devices during leisure time... that's when we should be recharging our mental batteries! πŸ’»
 
πŸ€” I'm so over this whole blurred lines thing. Everyone's always connected, and it's just not healthy. I mean, I get it, work-life balance is key, but what's the point of even having a 'digital detox' if you can just check your email on your phone? πŸ“± It's like, take some real steps to disconnect, not just pretend to.

And another thing, why do people need permission to set boundaries? It's not like it's going to hurt anyone. Just establish a routine that signals the end of work, and make sure you're not checking those pesky work emails or taking work calls during 'leisure time'. πŸ™„
 
🀯 work-life balance is basically non existent anymore with remote working πŸ“Š the pressure to be constantly on is mental πŸ•°οΈ 55% of employees feel pressured to respond to calls outside work hours πŸ“± i think setting boundaries is key 🚫 gotta have a daily ritual that signals the end of work life like exercise or reading ⏰ and avoiding work related tasks during leisure time πŸ‘‹ research says engaging with work email during leisure time is bad for ur physical & mental health πŸ€• need to create space for relaxation & recovery πŸ›€
 
🀯 I feel like we're living in a world where work is always on πŸ“±πŸ’». Even when the clock strikes 5 PM, you still get those emails and messages, right? It's no wonder burnout is such a thing now. We need to learn to disconnect from our jobs, you know? Like, I'm guilty of checking my phone before bed sometimes πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. But Ashley makes some great points - setting boundaries is key. My wife is always telling me to put down the phone during dinner, and it's hard at first, but she's right. We need that separation between work and personal life. It's all about finding what works for you and making a conscious effort to prioritize your mental health πŸ™πŸ’†β€β™‚οΈ
 
🀯 I mean, have you seen the stats on remote workers? 55% feel pressured to respond outside work hours πŸ•°οΈπŸ˜© It's like, we get it, work is demanding, but can't we just switch off a bit more easily? πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ I think setting boundaries is key. We need those clear distinctions between work and leisure time β°πŸ‘‰ Establishing daily rituals that signal the end of the day is a must! For me, it's about prioritizing self-care, whether that's exercise πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈ or spending quality time with loved ones πŸ‘«πŸ“š What do you guys think? Should we be embracing digital detoxes or finding ways to relax during work hours? πŸ€”
 
🀯 the whole thing is so true man... everyone's always connected these days πŸ“±πŸ’», it's like your work-life separation just kinda disappears. i know someone who works from home and they're still checking work emails at 10 pm πŸ•°οΈ, it's crazy. anyway, what really resonates with me is how important it is to actually create a routine that signals the end of the workday πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈ. like, exercising or hanging out with friends can be super therapeutic and help you unwind πŸ’†β€β™€οΈ. the thing is, our brains need space to recover from all the constant connectivity and stress πŸ’”. we gotta make time for relaxation and self-care, even if it's just a few minutes each day πŸ™. setting those boundaries is key, fam πŸ‘
 
ugh i dont get why ppl have to be on call 24/7 anymore 🀯 like cant they just leave work emails alone outside work hours? πŸ˜’ i try to disconnect from everything after 5 pm but it feels like everyone expects me to respond ASAP. i wish companies would let people have some real downtime, not just a digital detox... πŸ™„ what's the point of that if u still gotta check ur work email every hour?
 
omg u guys its like soooo important to set boundaries btw work & leisure πŸ™ŒπŸ˜΄ i feel like with remote working its getting easier to get sucked into work 24/7 & thats literally toxic for ur mental health 🀯🚫 we need to make time for ourselves & our loved ones, whether thats exercising, reading or just chillin πŸ˜ŽπŸ’†β€β™€οΈ like dont be afraid to say no to work calls or emails outside of work hours lol u deserve that digital detox ☁️😴
 
I don’t usually comment but I feel like people need to take control of their own boundaries when it comes to work and leisure 🀯... Remote working might be convenient but it also blurs the lines so much that you start feeling like you're always 'on'. My friend's sister is a remote worker and she's always saying she has to turn off her laptop by 5 pm or else she'll just keep checking emails 😴... I think that's where the problem lies, we need to create those clear distinctions between work and personal life. And yeah, avoiding work-related tasks during leisure time is super important, like my cousin who's always watching Netflix during his 'downtime' - it's all about setting those boundaries and making self-care a priority πŸ’†β€β™€οΈ
 
I'm low-key worried about the state of remote working 🀯. 55% of employees feel pressured to be on call 24/7? That's just not okay πŸ˜’. I mean, who needs that stress in their life? πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ It's time for us to set some boundaries and prioritize self-care, like setting a daily ritual or routine that signals the end of work mode πŸ””.

I'm loving the idea of digital detox and using apps to limit notifications πŸ“±. We need more tools like that to help us disconnect from work-related tasks outside working hours. And let's not forget about exercise, reading, and spending time with loved ones as part of our recovery routine πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈπŸ“šπŸ’•.

I also think it's time we rethink how we view work and leisure time πŸ€”. It's not just about whether the job is enjoyable or stressful, but about creating a healthy balance that prioritizes our well-being πŸ’–. We need to make conscious choices about how we spend our time and prioritize self-care.

Overall, I think it's time for us to take control of our work-life balance and set some boundaries 🚫. Let's make 2025 the year we prioritize our mental health and wellbeing! πŸ’ͺ
 
I'm totally with you on this remote work thing 🀯... nope, wait, I mean I'm not sure if it's all bad or good. Like, on one hand, being able to check email anytime is kinda convenient, right? 😴 But on the other hand, 55% of people feeling pressured to respond outside work hours sounds like a total drag πŸ€•... unless you're someone who's super productive and loves working late nights, in which case, more power to you! πŸ’ͺ However, I'm also with Claire Ashley on setting boundaries and establishing a daily ritual to signal the end of the workday. That makes total sense πŸ™Œ... unless we're talking about those digital detox apps, then I'm not so sure if they're effective πŸ€”...
 
Wow 😊 people need to take a break from all the work emails and notifications outside of work hours, it's like their brain is still on work mode and it's super draining πŸ’€.

Interesting how some people think exercise or spending time with friends is just about physical activity, not mental too πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈπŸ‘«.
 
🀯 I'm literally so done with this constant feeling of FOMO πŸ“±πŸ˜©. When are we supposed to switch off from work anyway? It's like, the moment you leave the office, your brain is still saying "email, email, email" πŸ˜‚. And don't even get me started on digital detoxes - it's not about cutting off social media entirely, it's about knowing when to take a break and actually unplug πŸ“΄.

And honestly, setting boundaries between work and leisure time isn't just about personal preference, it's about survival 🀯. We need time to recharge and prioritize our mental health, but it seems like everyone's always connected πŸ“±πŸ’». It's time for us to take control of our own well-being and make conscious choices about how we spend our time ⏰.

I mean, think about it - if you're constantly on call and can't disconnect from work, when do you ever truly get to relax and enjoy your free time? πŸ€” It's like, the moment we start putting our work lives first, that's when burnout sets in πŸ’₯. We need to create a healthier balance and learn to prioritize our own needs, rather than just going along with the status quo πŸ‘.
 
You know what's weird, I was just thinking about my childhood and how much my grandparents used to meditate before dinner πŸ™. They'd sit in silence for like 20 minutes, and it was so peaceful. Nowadays, with everyone's always connected, I feel like we're all missing out on that kind of quiet time. And then I started thinking about how remote working is taking away our ability to just 'clock out' and be done with the day πŸ•’οΈ. It's crazy how much pressure there is to be constantly available.
 
🀯 I've seen this trend with my own eyes and it's wild how many people are still checking emails on the weekends πŸ“§πŸ˜΄. I mean, I get it, work is part of life but come on, you can't be constantly 'on' 24/7! It's like, you're not even fully disconnected from work at this point. I've got friends who are always "just checking in real quick" and then hours go by... πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ.

I think the key is to actually set boundaries and prioritize self-care. Like, take a digital detox for a day or two and just chill without your phone πŸ“΄. Or, try that daily ritual Claire Ashley mentioned - exercise, reading, spending time with loved ones... whatever it is you need to unwind. And honestly, it's not about hating work or feeling like you're burning out (although burnout is real, tbh πŸ’”). It's just about making space for yourself and recognizing that work and personal life are not the same thing 🀝.

And can we talk about how weird it is that people still think they need to be constantly available? Like, have you seen those "work from home" ads where they're all like "be your own boss"? πŸ™„ Newsflash: if you're working from home, YOU'RE STILL BOSS OF YOUR TIME. So, make sure you're using it wisely! ⏰
 
πŸ“Š Burnout's the real winner here... I mean, who needs leisure time when you can just be constantly on call? 🀯 It's like we're living in this perpetual state of 'on duty' and that's taking a toll on people's mental health.

I feel like we need to redefine what it means to work remotely and not have our personal lives suffer. I mean, exercise is great for the body, but just because you can do yoga in bed doesn't make it 'work'. πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ It's all about setting boundaries, you know? Like, if you're gonna watch Netflix after 6 pm, that's your time, not work-time.

I'm also curious about these apps that limit notifications during work hours... how effective are they really? Is it just a Band-Aid solution or can we actually change the way we think about our 'work-life' balance? πŸ€”
 
I feel like I'm stuck in some kind of digital purgatory where my boss is still expecting me to respond to emails at 10 PM πŸ•°οΈπŸ˜΄. It's like, dude, it's Friday night, let me watch Netflix or something... 55% of employees feel pressured to work outside work hours? That's just a fancy way of saying we're all just trying to adult without losing our minds πŸ’€πŸ“Š. Setting boundaries is key, but how do you set boundaries when your job is literally everywhere and in your head 24/7? πŸ€―πŸ’»
 
It's crazy how blurred the lines are between work and leisure nowadays πŸ˜‚. I mean, I get it, remote working is convenient, but 55% of employees feeling pressured to respond outside work hours? That's just not right 🀯. We need to set boundaries, like Ashley said, establish a daily ritual that signals the end of work time... exercise, reading, or spending time with loved ones. It's all about creating space for relaxation and recovery πŸ’†β€β™€οΈ.

But I also think we need to rethink what we do during our leisure time matters more than the activity itself πŸ€”. It's not just about the physical stuff, like avoiding work-related tasks and electronic devices, but also mental separation from work πŸ“΄.

I'm all for taking breaks and prioritizing self-care, but let's be real, some people love their jobs and need downtime too 😊. The Dramma model is a great framework for understanding recovery experiences, but it's not just about personal preference; it's about being proactive in managing stress and burnout πŸ“ˆ.

We need to find that balance between work and leisure, where we can actually enjoy our free time without feeling guilty or checking email πŸ•°οΈ. It's time to redefine what success means for us as individuals and prioritize our mental health over productivity πŸ’ͺ.
 
I'm so worried about burnout 😩, it's like we're constantly connected to work even when we're not supposed to be πŸ“±πŸ‘€. I feel like I need to "check in" on my job all the time, even if I'm supposed to be relaxing or spending time with family 🀯. It's like, how do you just turn off that stress and anxiety? πŸ€” I need some help figuring out how to set boundaries and prioritize self-care 😌. Maybe taking a digital detox or finding activities that bring me joy is the way to go... anyone have any tips? πŸ’‘
 
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