Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

A city that is home to 180,000 dogs has never had a public pet cemetery until now. A municipal-funded initiative was sparked by "constant public demand." The announcement comes as a surprise, as Barcelona's densely populated city has limited privately owned land.

Historic records show that the burial of pets dates back to the late 19th century in Europe and North America. Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881. New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery was founded in 1896, followed by Paris' ornate Cimetière des Chiens in 1899.

A lecturer in historical archaeology at Newcastle University studied the archaeological record of a centuries-old house in Toronto and discovered that a large dog was buried in the back garden between 1840 and 1870. The dog had suffered from degenerative joint disease and severe infections during its final months, suggesting it received some level of care.

This case raises questions about why pets are buried with such attention when other options were available. This behavior could be reflective of the relationships people held with their animals in life. Perhaps burying a pet is an intimate cultural practice that changes over time and reflects changing human-animal relationships.

The study found that by the early 20th century, pets had become members of the family – evidenced by the appearance of family surnames on gravestones and loving epitaphs written by "Mummy and Daddy."

Fast-forward to modern times, and it is clear that society's attitude towards animals in the afterlife has changed. Gravestones now often reference reunions rather than earlier ones. For example, the owners of Denny, a brave little cat buried in an east London cemetery in 1952, wrote on his epitaph "God bless until we meet again."

The similarity between modern and historic pet cemeteries is striking. The connection that someone has with their pet can be just as strong and significant as their relationships with other humans. However, individuals often struggle to find the appropriate outlet to express their pain, hiding heartache for fear of social repercussions.

Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling to bereaved humans in the UK. Online forums and digital pet cemeteries also provide opportunities for people to commemorate relationships and express grief.

In Barcelona's new cemetery, estimated at €200 ($217) per service, not everyone can afford this opportunity. This will not be a space for all of the city's pets. Pet owners may choose to keep cremated remains within their home or spread out ashes in a meaningful location instead.
 
The pet cemetery thing is kinda sad 🐾😔. I mean, it's great that people want to remember and honor their furry friends, but €200 service price? That's a bit of a barrier for some ppl 💸. Maybe there should be more affordable options or even community-driven initiatives to make pet cemeteries more accessible? 🤝
 
🐶💔 think its so cool that barcelona is finally getting a public pet cemetery 🙌 its like, we've been aware of this tradition for centuries but never had one here in europe 🤷‍♀️ the history behind it is fascinating - from london's hyde park to paris' cimetière des chiens 💀 it shows how much humans care about their pets and want to remember them after they pass away 😊 i think its also interesting that we're seeing a shift towards more modern pet loss grief centers and online forums where people can cope with the pain of losing a pet 👍 but yeah, not everyone can afford this luxury 🤑 so maybe cremation or home burials are the way to go for those who cant afford it 💕
 
I think it's really interesting that Barcelona is finally opening up a public pet cemetery. 🐶💀 It shows how society's attitudes towards animals have changed over time. In the past, burying pets was more common, but now cremation and scattering ashes seem to be the norm. 🌾 The fact that some people can't afford this new service is sad though, €200 a pop is pretty pricey 💸. Maybe they should look into more affordable options or work with local charities to make pet loss services more accessible 🤝. It just goes to show how much we value our relationships with animals and want to give them a proper sendoff 💕.
 
🐶😔 I think it's super beautiful that Barcelona is finally opening its own public pet cemetery, especially with 180,000 furry friends living there 🌳💚. It's crazy to think about how much history and love goes into these cemeteries - from the late 19th century to today, it's clear people have always wanted to honor their pets in a special way 💕.

The idea that burying a pet is an intimate cultural practice that changes over time is really interesting 🤔. I mean, who hasn't felt the pain of losing a beloved pet and struggled to find ways to say goodbye? 🌹 It's like, we've come full circle - in some cases, people are now more open about their grief, but others might not be able to afford this kind of service 😕.

I love that there are charities and online resources available for people who are grieving the loss of a pet 💖. And hey, at least the city is acknowledging the importance of remembering our furry friends in a beautiful way 🌻. Maybe one day they'll have a special "pet-friendly" section where owners can scatter ashes or say goodbye to their beloved pets 🐾💕
 
this is wild that it took so long for barcelona to get a public pet cemetery 🤯 i mean, we're talking about dogs and cats here! it's not like they were just pets, they were part of the family 💕 it's crazy how much our attitudes towards animals have changed over time. from being buried with care in historic cemeteries to cremation or scattering ashes at home... it just shows how society views death as a more personal and emotional experience when it comes to humans vs animals 🌎
 
🐾💔 I think it's really cool that Barcelona is finally getting its own public pet cemetery 🌳. It's crazy to think about how much attention people used to give to burying their pets all the way back in the 19th century 💀. Like, who knew that in 1881, a dog was buried with some level of care in Hyde Park? 😂 It just goes to show that our relationship with animals has changed over time.

I also love how modern pet cemeteries and charities are helping people cope with loss 🤗. Online forums and digital pet cemeteries can be super helpful for people who don't feel like they can afford or want a traditional cemetery visit 💸. But at the same time, it's sad that not everyone in Barcelona will have access to this new cemetery 🤕.

I guess what I'm saying is that it's okay to acknowledge and celebrate our love for our pets, even if we don't feel like we can afford to do so 💗. We should be able to find ways to honor their memory without breaking the bank 💸. Who knows, maybe one day we'll have more pet-friendly options for everyone 🐾💕
 
I just saw the news about Barcelona opening its first public pet cemetery 🐾💔 and it got me thinking... I mean, who wouldn't want to give their beloved furry friend a proper sendoff? 😊 A diagram of a dog's life stages might help us understand why people go above and beyond for our pets:

```
+---------------+
| Life Stages |
+---------------+
|
| Companionship
v
+---------------+ +---------------+
| Play & Love | Care & Nourish |
+---------------+ +---------------+
|
| Trust & Bonding
v
+---------------+ +---------------+
| Emotional Support | Unconditional Love |
+---------------+ +---------------+

```

It's clear that our relationships with pets have evolved over time. They've become an integral part of the family, just like human siblings 🤝. But sometimes we need a space to grieve and honor those memories 🌹. A pet cemetery in Barcelona might not be accessible to everyone, but I hope it sparks conversations about supporting pet owners during tough times 💕.

A simple ASCII art representation of a heart with an arrow pointing upwards:

```
_____
/ \
/ \
| ❤️ |
______/
| |
| Reunion |
|_____|
```
 
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